April 27, 2010

Antsy-pants asked:   

“I have another question, your advice is too awesome to pass up.

Last year I was involved with a man, who was ten years older than I. I’ve known him for a long time and he’s one of my brothers friends. No one in our family knew what was going on though. Well back to the point, last year after a good four months of fooling around and sneaking out of my house to see him, he stopped talking to me, out of the blue. I was 18 at that time, and a year has passed and I never heard from him again. I feel like I want to ask him what happened, but with no intention of restarting anything. I just want closure. What do you think I should do?”

 Dear Antsy Pants,

He sounds like a cowardly prick. Do you really feel asking him what happened would give you closure? If so, then just do it. This is about YOU and not him, remember that. You may not like what he has to say but at least you’ll know what happened?

He may spin you some bull shit lines – be cautious!

Love,

Mother Cougar